Remembering Claire Wineland

A saying she loved:

You never truly get what you want until you want what you have. 

Choice is less about what happens than it is about how we deal with it. 

Sense8 

The only real unconditional love is your own inner stillness, your own inner awareness and acceptance.

Suffering is seeking and expecting love from others while still judging and denying ourselves internally.

calloused

You always wonder, 'What could I have done differently?' But there's also the healthier part that says, 'You integrate it, and you get on.' You never get over it, you just get used to it. You get calloused, a little bit harder maybe, so be on guard for that. But take these tragic things and turn them into something meaningful and worthy of the loss. Make it count. From here on out, do the best you can to make it count."

Mark Ruffalo